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Post by Philippa on Jan 5, 2018 13:33:59 GMT -5
I told my Mom I converted around 9 months ago and it hasn’t been so bad. Alhamdulliah. However she requested I don’t tell my other family members. However I want to move forward and open up a communication link. However I don’t want to do this because my mom likes to start arguments and my knowledge is not that strong. I know she will have issues if I tell her I want to wear a Hijab, and will say things like “ so you don’t repeat me or your sister because we don’t wear a scarf and other people don’t respect us?” Or why do you need to wear that anyway?
I don’t know how to respond but I want to move forward with my life and my religion and I can’t when she chooses to pretend like I never told her. I am getting married this year InshAllah and that will not go down well either. I just don’t know how to move forward. Any help or advice is welcome Thanks
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Post by Wahab on Jan 31, 2018 15:48:20 GMT -5
I can help you to understand Islam properly . And you will have no issues regarding anything like scarf etc . inshaAllah . My contact wahab8@outlook.com
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Post by malcomx00 on Feb 24, 2018 16:22:24 GMT -5
Salam sister You can explain to your mother that you conver not for submission to any human but for god and that a women covered doent mean a women under submission. In fact women that are not well convered and forced to be like that to please to man are under submission. Today we can not sell a yougurt without a naked women exposed. With hijeb a man will lokk to you as a person not as a peice of meat; Important in islam to stay in good term with your mother and keep debat and argumentation ploite. Like go say in Coran, sourat Nahl, 125 :
"Invite to the way of your Lord with wisdom and good instruction, and argue with them in a way that is best. Indeed, your Lord is most knowing of who has strayed from His way, and He is most knowing of who is [rightly] guided."
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Post by usudedizufug on Aug 5, 2019 8:11:52 GMT -5
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Post by taalibilm on Aug 23, 2019 18:21:41 GMT -5
salaam off topic from this subject. just joined yesterday, wanted to know how do u creat a post.
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Post by taalibilm on Aug 23, 2019 18:22:52 GMT -5
I told my Mom I converted around 9 months ago and it hasn’t been so bad. Alhamdulliah. However she requested I don’t tell my other family members. However I want to move forward and open up a communication link. However I don’t want to do this because my mom likes to start arguments and my knowledge is not that strong. I know she will have issues if I tell her I want to wear a Hijab, and will say things like “ so you don’t repeat me or your sister because we don’t wear a scarf and other people don’t respect us?” Or why do you need to wear that anyway? I don’t know how to respond but I want to move forward with my life and my religion and I can’t when she chooses to pretend like I never told her. I am getting married this year InshAllah and that will not go down well either. I just don’t know how to move forward. Any help or advice is welcome Thanks
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