Post by RevertSeekingHelp on Oct 22, 2016 22:49:19 GMT -5
Assalamu Alaikum,
I recently converted to Islam, wow almost a year ago. And right now, I'm having some struggles and I would like to seek the advice of my ummah. I came into Islam with an open heart and open mind, and I fell in love. It was something I had never experienced before but honestly feel that my whole life had been set up to come face to face with this way of life. I am deeply grateful for it, Right now though I'm experiencing some anxiety and stress related to Islam. I'm more afraid than in love with Allah, and I don't know what to do about it. I'm not saying that I want to have this carefree attitude towards our creator, I love Him and appreciate Him deeply but I have this deep fear of the day of judgment and not being a good enough Muslim. Actually, that's my problem. I'm afraid that I won't be good enough for Allah or anyone else. I've been interested in marriage, just because this is a very important step in my life but I've also been told that marriage is a big step in our faith. I desire the love of a Muslim husband, however I don't feel like a good enough Muslim for him. I know that Islam covers all bases of my life, like spiritual, physical, and emotional kind of bases. I feel that my emotions and mindsets of what I struggle with are hurting me as a Muslim, and being new to the religion doesn't help me either. I'm not at all trying to leave Islam. I've tried going to the masjid, but my anxiety takes me over and I crash. I'm so afraid of judgment. I've been told that Muslims are wonderful people, I believe it. I really do, I just have a hard time being the new person right now. Insha'allah, I'm praying that it will get better. This has definitely been a test that Allah has placed in front of me. I've tried every route besides talking with my community, and right now this community is the only one I need and also feel comfortable with. It's not a person that sitting in front of me, waiting for my next move. It's patient and calm, and just waiting there but not on me. I don't know it's difficult to explain, but there's freedom behind this veil of a computer screen sometimes. I would truly appreciate any advice or duas or anything. Jazak Allah Khair in advance.
Assalamu Alaikum.
I recently converted to Islam, wow almost a year ago. And right now, I'm having some struggles and I would like to seek the advice of my ummah. I came into Islam with an open heart and open mind, and I fell in love. It was something I had never experienced before but honestly feel that my whole life had been set up to come face to face with this way of life. I am deeply grateful for it, Right now though I'm experiencing some anxiety and stress related to Islam. I'm more afraid than in love with Allah, and I don't know what to do about it. I'm not saying that I want to have this carefree attitude towards our creator, I love Him and appreciate Him deeply but I have this deep fear of the day of judgment and not being a good enough Muslim. Actually, that's my problem. I'm afraid that I won't be good enough for Allah or anyone else. I've been interested in marriage, just because this is a very important step in my life but I've also been told that marriage is a big step in our faith. I desire the love of a Muslim husband, however I don't feel like a good enough Muslim for him. I know that Islam covers all bases of my life, like spiritual, physical, and emotional kind of bases. I feel that my emotions and mindsets of what I struggle with are hurting me as a Muslim, and being new to the religion doesn't help me either. I'm not at all trying to leave Islam. I've tried going to the masjid, but my anxiety takes me over and I crash. I'm so afraid of judgment. I've been told that Muslims are wonderful people, I believe it. I really do, I just have a hard time being the new person right now. Insha'allah, I'm praying that it will get better. This has definitely been a test that Allah has placed in front of me. I've tried every route besides talking with my community, and right now this community is the only one I need and also feel comfortable with. It's not a person that sitting in front of me, waiting for my next move. It's patient and calm, and just waiting there but not on me. I don't know it's difficult to explain, but there's freedom behind this veil of a computer screen sometimes. I would truly appreciate any advice or duas or anything. Jazak Allah Khair in advance.
Assalamu Alaikum.